New Years resolutionsHappy 2013, beauties!

I hope that you all had a wonderful holiday season and I wish you good health, wealth and happiness in the New Year.

Speaking of the New Year, I have a few resolutions for 2013. Do you have any? I don’t usually buy into the whole resolutions thing, but I’ve had some self-improvement goals that I’ve put on the back-burner for too long. So this year, I’m making them official. And by posting them this year (and outing myself), I hope to hold myself accountable and accomplish most of them in the next 12 months.

So here we go…

1. Buy a house: Mr. Spoiled Pretty and I have been living the gypsy lifestyle for far too long. Renting, especially in this economy, has had its perks – but I’m ready to take the plunge. We live in a house now, but what I really want is a home. Some place for Westley to run and play, with a big backyard and room for the pet that my son has been begging for. This will be the year.

2. Lose 20lbs: I need to drop some serious poundage this year. I want to be healthier and look better in my clothes. When I think of how much time,  energy  and money I’ve spent trying to dress thinner – it’s probably way easier (and cheaper) to just work out more and exercise some portion control. After years of wishing, hoping and praying that the weight would just magically fall off, it’s time to face reality and work my ass off. Literally.

3. Cook more often: It’s not that I can’t cook. It’s just that I don’t enjoy it. I have a full-time job, I’m the mom of a toddler and I blog in whatever free time I can scrounge up. By the time I get home from work, I’m so exhausted that I typically heat up something frozen or have food delivered. That kind of lifestyle worked pre-Westley, but now I need to be a grown up and start making more healthy meals for my family. So, this year, instead of picking up the phone to call for pizza or sushi, I’m going to pick up some pots and pans and get cookin’.

4. Stop being a hoarder: Okay, so I’m not actually a hoarder…at least not to the extent you see on TLC. But I have a bad habit of holding on to things past their prime. So I’m resolving to de-clutter my life – and not just my house. I’m going to clean out my email inbox and keep it clean (unsubscribe from all of those newsletters and junk that I never read), stop using my purse as a repository for useless crap, and say sayonara to stuff that doesn’t serve me anymore.

5. Enjoy more me time: When I became a mom, my priorities completely changed. Hell, everything changed. I became selfless, to a fault, and I hardly ever take time to focus on myself. Almost everything I do is for others – and I feel guilty when I’m not worrying about or doing things for other people, particularly my family. But then I start to resent the fact that I’m exhausted and don’t do the things I enjoy as often as I’d like. I’ve realized that it’s me who’s been holding me back from more “me” time. So this year, any time my husband insists that he can handle the baby and that I should get out of the house, I’m going – even if I don’t have a plan or a destination. I’m just going to drive away and I’m not going to feel guilty.

I’m sure I could think of a few more things to add to this list, but these five are about all I can commit to right now. What are your New Year’s resolutions? Tell me in the comments.

2 Comments on New Year’s Resolutions

  1. Mary
    January 4, 2013 at 4:07 PM (5 years ago)

    Blogging over cooking? Psst…

  2. Peggy R
    January 4, 2013 at 8:49 PM (5 years ago)

    I came down with this wonderful flu that’s going around, even after getting a flu shot, so my plans got delayed. All I plan on doing this year is getting my place cleaned up and organized. I’m sure a lot of things will be thrown away, which will make my Husband happy. What won’t make him happy is the fact that he’s going to have to help with some of the work, since I can’t do it with my health problems. I also plan on managing my time better, because I don’t take enough time for myself and for my Husband, which isn’t fair. I also need to spend a little more time with my 2 kittens, because they’re growing up too fast, and I need to try and play with them and teach them a little bit more.